Think...

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What do you do when things do not work out the way you want them to.I mean feeling bad is but very natural,but then what if you cannot help yourself even after that.If you feel bad and go off to sleep,it will not mean that your problem has got a solution rather it will mean yoou are an escapist who just wants to ignore a particular situation because you don't have the slightest of inklings of what to do now and what not to do?!.The answer to this is very simple but the execution is the hardest.Whenever any of us faces a situation like this one needs to think of how one can really improve things.This is not going to be easy at all for one will not want to think.How do I know?Well I have been fooling around for a number of years now and finally I have realized this,that in order to have peace in one's life and to avoid the temporary suspension of problems,one need to think about a permanent solution and in doing that one cannot always think about oneself but will have to think about the other people too.okay I know that is obvious but then usually it happens that when one gives oneself much importance one does not realize this.Yes I did give myself importance and there is nothing wrong in that,i think.We all love ourselves the most no matter how much we say our partners or family that we love them more or the most.But then I have realized where exactly I was wrong.I was wrong thinking that if I change my own shortcomings that I'll work and do good and reconcile with everything else.If I can work on my shortcomings then others can as well only if pointed out theirs.But no,I was wrong because others may not have the capacity like I or you have to improve things or it may be that only you as a person may think that you are improving but in reality you have not.Now even after trying so much why does this happen?I do not have an answer to this question,or may be probably one I had not really tried that hard and so the solution is no laziness allowed and work more towards improving yourself as well as the other person or persons but not in a way so as to give them an impression that you are hurting them or doing a favourv to them.And another important thing is,talk only when you know you can talk sense.How do you know that you talk sense because you never know your sensible words may turn out to be harsh or mean to someone else.What do you do then?Well,think.

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