Changes and growth

Now that I have come back home for a period of three months like almost three months I realize that there are so many things in and around me that has changed and there are also certain things which needs to be changed.I see the number of new things that my mother has bought in order to decorate the house,the furniture and everything with their changed positions and infact the local market Muchipara has a completely different look because of all the efforts being taken to widen the grant trunk road.I personally do not feel good seeing this for I favour the old Muchipara more.Nevertheless this is all being done keeping in mind the general good of the people and I hope it comes out with a successful look that to as soon as possible so that the regular travellers do not really face problems travelling.Then of course there is our house which needs new curtains and a fresh paint big time.When it comes to the humans I don't really find any change in them.My grandfather is still the same curious old man I had been with three months Back.My father still a child,my grandmother jabbering all the time and my mother working sensibly and managing all the household affairs with extraordinary brilliancy.I hope I can be a good home maker like her gsomeday.But then I have also noticed that I have changed in quite a few ways.My tastes no more demarcates itself in the typical zone.I can see of how my patience has increased and how slowly and gradually I am learning to control my temper and act with a proper sense of judgement.I no more bother my mother asking her to make all the best dishes for me rather I have adopted myself into consuming things I used to hate before and by that i do not mean cigarettes or alcohol but i mean fish and lots and lots of green vegetables.I talk less and think what is necessary.I have Also started making an annual budgetary plan and developed in myself the habit of saving thoughts or as I say and name it,where any bad memory if remembered is immediately repressed.These two years in my college has taught me to avoid some people and their crap and pay attention to people who love me and to things that are productive.Initially the process of inculcating such positive attitude was not at all an easy task and even now I sometimes require more effort than the normal but yes I am happy that I am learning and growing.