Is it possible?

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What will you do when you come to know that some person you admire has dark secrets?Secrets which are nasty enough to be unacceptable and what if that person is someone whom you not only admire but also idolize.Will you still idolize that person?Will you begin to hate that person or still love him or her,accepting the shortcomings?Do you respect someone who has the ability of being a genius and at the same time can physically as well as mentally abuse people and family.A complete drug addict,who follows and works on the dictum 'do as i say and not do as i do' can hardly be given respect.A pretension of being a confirmist when one is just as confused and paradoxical regarding almost everything and yet thrusts oneself as a social commentator and preaches people things s/he can't themselves practise.Is it because they know that they are not what people believe them to be yet they try desperately to be precisely what people expect them to be,that they fail in that attempt because they are too much in their own self asserted paradise!What if and when they become legends not easily forgotten?And somehow when the majority believes in the little good they had not paying attention to whatever wrong the idolized person has done.Is it just obsession or being fanatic about that person?Or is it more?Can there be a region beyond obsession,where one is able to connect with all the good and evil deeds of a human?Can substantiate this as the id tenet of Freud's psychoanalysis but can we incorporate spirituality here to define the existence of the strong woven thread of blindness,one that helps surpass all that is good and bad,to accept just what remains and connects.Is it possible?

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