It is good!

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The extremely maniacal attitude of people to prove that they are the best find its climax in proving exactly the opposite.It is comical and dangerous.Even i had this fever some years back,but now i rather feel happy to assert i am not the best,and not even the very good.I am good and that is enough.I remember in this last year of my college,we were asked by a teacher to write a dialogue concerning the discussion between a student and his guardian,about the future plans of the student.We wrote it and then we submitted our exercise books to our teacher for correction and soon forgot about it but then i remember one of our classmates who actually wanted everyone to hear what she has written which according to some was more an advertisement than really wanting to know if her writing was good?No,i don't have grudges against her or anyone but this is exactly what is so dangerous.Recently i went to one of our societal weddings,where everybody was busy announcing as to from where they had bought their jewelleries and dresses and how they looked better than anyone and everyone.This was comically dangerous.Is this what they say cheap competition or being narcissistic?And now the most important point is you can't tell them on their face of how annoying they can get at times?You know why?Because such people feel that whatever they do is right and if they are told by anyone about it,they won't even look back at that person because they can't bear to hear criticism.All they can do is take appreciation forcefully.This is not the simple 'you don't like me,i don't like you' thing.It is more than that and i would rather keep myself away from such diseased people,because i don't want to be the butt of ridicule in the name of fake admiration gainer.I have friends who will accept my views and i have friends who are genuine enough to tell me about how ridiculously bad my grammar in a particular post was(to strike one example),and not just shower blind compliments on me and how despite my faltering image at times they like me for what i am and are kind enough to keep in touch.My life is not best,not very good but good.

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