Mind your business

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What happens when you grow up in not so amiable an environment? What happens when you meet abominable people around you,busier than ever to point out your mistakes to all and having their joy and mirth in that? What happens when you really want to tell such people that even they themselves are not paragon ofs perfection? But you stop yourself from doing so because after all you are advised 'by some' not to fall down to their level just to "criticize" them?! Why so? I mean is it wrong or is it what they call uncivil to say things frankly on the faces of such odious people. It is not a substandard thing to actually say people that they are wrong. It is not called criticizing because it is you who is being criticized for not even harming them a bit by following your daily work just as you are expected to. You are after all being dutiful towards yourself and they are all jobless for they criticize no matter what. They are wrong for they compare in senses which appear so nonsensical. I am by such things completely thrown into fits of agitation and it is at points as such that I can shout just to tell them that they are horribly ridiculous. For if they can ignore not keeping in mind the minimal courtesy,even I can. For if they can enjoy recklessly,even I can enjoy as per my concept of enjoying enjoyment. Those 'some' people advise me to actually not take the words of such morons to the point of affecting myself so that it might not disrupt my working schemes. But I am a human after all,and a good human I suppose that I am actually troubled when they regard me not. Now this obviously does not mean that I want to please everybody and turn into a maniac. But I do expect people to appreciate what is praiseworthy,to not judge without knowing and if they can't abide by the first two,they can actually do something like not poking their nose into matters where they and their words are most unwanted.

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